Comments on: Man #14, Bitter Boy

By: mydatingprescription

mydatingprescription — Mon, 09 May 2011 22:51:52 +0000

Thanks, JJ.
I like that line you used. It is direct and concise, and like I said, I think my biggest problem is I just need to be more direct.

By: JJ

JJ — Mon, 09 May 2011 15:04:42 +0000

I DEFINITELY wouldn’t waste a second date on this guy. In fact, (and I know you are not a rude person ….just tell him thanks, but no you won’t be joining him on Monday. An e-mail would be the easy way but a phone call is more polite. If he persists, I have used this line before on a very persistent suitor: “On our last date I was both insulted and bored – an experience I don’t care to repeat!” (Feel free to use it as it worked.)

By: The Single Girl

The Single Girl — Sun, 08 May 2011 23:11:38 +0000

Haha, thank God you stopped replying, he sounds like an absolutely charming guy!

By: mydatingprescription

mydatingprescription — Sun, 08 May 2011 22:12:28 +0000

See my comment to Gino. I was trying to weigh my options. If he reads the blog, he’ll get the message, but since I stopped responding to him, he probably got the message anyway. I’m afraid to text him as I don’t want to open the texting floodgates again.

By: mydatingprescription

mydatingprescription — Sun, 08 May 2011 22:10:37 +0000

You think so? Sometimes I think it would actually be nicer to just be more forthright. To just stop answering texts seems less nice in comparison.

By: Surrey gal

Surrey gal — Sun, 08 May 2011 20:04:20 +0000

Are you at least going to tell him that you are not going? Or will will NOT be that nice?

By: Gino

Gino — Sun, 08 May 2011 08:06:32 +0000

someone once told me…you never get a second chance to make a first impression. 86 more dates..why bother with a 2nd date that you didn’t seem to like the first time. hmmmm… you are a nice lady.